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Thanksgiving is just a few days away. It will be a time for the
family to gathering around the table to talk about the relatives that didn't
show up. It will be a time that I remember of sitting at a card table with
the other kids whining because we wanted McDonald's. I don't think I ever
sat at the dinner table when we had company until I was out of high school.
I looked forward to the
Atlanta newspaper on Thanksgiving and reading
Furman Bisher's column
about what he was thankful for. Mr. Bisher befriended me in 1987 when I
served at the public address announcer at
Atlanta-Fulton County Stadium for the
Atlanta Falcons for 7
seasons. I saw him back in the summer when he was honored for his writing at
an event here at Kennesaw
State Univesity. He should be known not only for his passion for sports but
for his compassion for others. With apologies to my favorite North Carolina
Tar Heel here is what I am grateful for in 2009.
I am thankful for a Lord and Savior that
knows more than I do. I am grateful that I was taught to believe in myself
but to always maintain humility. I learned a long time ago that I wasn't the
smarted guy in the room. I am thankful for those rare days that I can play
golf or ride the Harley on the backroads. Is there anything like waking up
to the smell of bacon frying and coffee brewing? I am thankful to a
grandmother who taught me the fundamentals of a kitchen and that anything
cooked on a gas stove
tastes better than anything prepared in the microwave. When I hear my kids
raving over my scrambled cheese eggs, biscuits, cheese grits, and turkey
bacon it gives me a reason to smile. I am grateful for the smell of chili
slowly simmering on the stove and the sight of a Lodge iron skillet of
hot corn bread begging for a pat of butter just out of the oven. I also love
the smell of burning leaves and am still a kid when it comes to when it
snows. I am thankful for the gift of conversation. Seems like the only way
people are communicating these days is through email,
Twitter,
Facebook, or text
message. When is the last time you just sat and talked to someone? I am
grateful for when I see the sign outside a gas station that says that
unleaded regular has dropped ten cents overnight and I'm sitting on less
than a quarter of a tank. I kind of glad that Tallapoosa doesn't have gas
stations that sell burritos, roach clips, and white merlot. My thankfulness
for two healthy and happy little girls can not be measured. I am grateful
for other children in my life. Neighbors Meghann and Braden "Bo Bo" Glaze
who gleefully meet us when we pull up to the house. There is an almost two
year old little boy that is the grandson of a life long friend named Carson
Carr who could have torn up the site for the new CVS in an hour with a tea
spoon, but he has the greatest disposition of any child I have ever seen. My
prediction for Carson is that he will either be an electrical engineer, a
member of Congress or a pit boss at a casino in Tunica. His grandmother is
still the prettiest girl I ever saw. I am thankful for the Williams kids
across the street who are students at
Haralson County High School and always seem to be selling candles,
cookies, calendars or something to help support the music programs at the
school. I am grateful for my love of music that began at Tallapoosa
Elementary School in the 5th grade when classmates Kay and Fay Allen, Beleta
Smith, Melissa Smith,
and I joined the school band at the urging of band director Rod Ferguson. I
have to thank Johnny DeVere for teaching me how to play drum cadences and
that music was fun. I love driving down the road and hearing a song on the
radio that reminds me of good days gone by or of someone special. I am
grateful that Tallapoosa has a radio station that plays the kind of music
that I love. It is the kind of music that I've lived from time to time. If
it weren't for Sue Muse telling me the merits of
Country music in my
first year of radio I might not have known
George Jones, Dolly
Parton, Ronnie Milsap,
Conway Twitty,
Chet Atkins,
Randy Travis and Merle
Haggard through my career in radio. I am thankful for the sound of
Eli Gold's voice over my radio speakers shouting "TOUCHDOWN ALABAMA!" or
Wes Durham excitement with "TOUCHDOWN FALCONS!". I am thankful that
Larry Munson is still
with us. I am grateful for those rare times when I find a great parking spot
near the front entrance of Wal Mart. I am blessed to fulfill my dream of
teaching. I am glad that I wake up in the middle of the night when my girls
cough. I am proud of my two sons and the 4 terrific grandchildren they have
given me. I love that the Burger Chick is 4 blocks from the house and is to
Tallapoosa what the Varsity is to Atlanta. One of my
students recently told me of her husband insisting on driving to Tallapoosa
from Woodstock just to
eat at Burger Chick. I'm glad my generation had the Tasty Treat and knew a
time when there were "gas wars" between Mr. Lively's Texaco, Mr. McBurnett's
Gulf, and Mr. Butram's Amoco. My gratitude for the love and concern of
others is another immeasurable gift. Being loved without it being verbalized
is more valuable than gold. The blessing of being from these streets
is something I value more than being in three halls of fame or any
awards sitting on the mantle. I am thankful for hearing the words "you're
the best dad in the whole world". I'll never hear that too much. I am
thankful for the city's leadership and our hard working people in public
service that make our city a safe place to live. I tip my hat to the folks
at city hall that always greet people with a smile and kind word. I
am especially proud of our fire chief. I've known him since we were in
kindergarten. We also graduated from Tallapoosa High and West Georgia
College together. We have top notch police officers like Dana Ramey and
Raymond Ballew that keep our streets safe. I appreciate Chief Worthy and the
department he runs. Raymond Ballew can also fix a flat screen television and
Dana can write and perform songs as good as CMA Award winners. She can also
fire a Glock with dead-on accuracy. I also think Sheriff Eddie Mixon and the
Haralson County Sheriff's Department do a fabulous job. I am thankful
for people who wave when they pass by. I am grateful for the sights and
sounds of our town on the 4th
of July. Tallapoosa is like a
Norman Rockwell painting
on America's birthday. I am thankful for the Tallapoosa Service Council that
once helped a 4th grader realize the true meaning of Christmas with the gift
of a football one year. I am thankful for all of you who read this column
and support the Tallapoosa Journal. I am grateful that I knew Frances Greene
who encouraged me to persue journalism. Tallapoosa, we have a great town and
all of us should take some time this
Thanksgiving Day to
reflect on just how good life is.
Rhubarb Jones is a Tallapoosa native and
is a Distinguished Lecturer in the Department of Communciation and is
Director of Special Projects in the Office of Development at
Kennesaw State University. Comments can be sent to P.O. Box 1001,
Tallapoosa, GA 30176 or via email at
rhubarbjones@aol.com
or
rhubarb.jones@yahoo.com
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