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arts school in Orlando. She finished at
the top of her class and has moved back to Tallapoosa and is working
her magic at Tanner Medical Center in Carrollton. If cake decorators were
artists, then she'd be Vincent
Van Gogh. Last Tuesday, the 9th, my mother would have been 86. She
died in January of 1989 and I miss her everyday. Mama was born on Freeman
Street in 1924 and was the
baby of the family. Her father Frank Meunier was a rural mail carrier
and worked for George Sheffield at his hardware store on Head Avenue. He
also was a justice of the peace here in
Tallapoosa. Mother's mother, Mary Etta Meunier also known as
"Mamanier" or "Maw Meunier"by many, was a homemaker and for a few years ran
a cafe on the city's main street called "Jack's Place". It was during the
Great Depression and I was told she gave more food away than she sold. Mama
told me that my Mamanier never allowed anyone who came in the door to go
hungry regardless of their ability to pay. She especially had a tender spot
when it came to children. Mother's oldest sister Agnes Martin was a
character. She'd say whatever was on her mind and you always knew where you
stood with her. My Aunt Leslie E'Dalgo is the lone survivor of my mother's
brothers and sisters. She is in her early 90's and lives in Forsyth in
Monroe County. She still drives her Mercury and is sharp as a Bud Jones
filleting knife. My mother's middle brother was Jack Meunier. He worked with
my father at Eastern Airlines in
Miami. He bought me my
first bicycle when I was in the first grade and taught me how to ride it.
My daughter Presley learned in the past couple of weeks how to ride a
two-wheeler after being told how to by next door neighbor Meghann Glaze. It
is amazing that kids will take instruction from other kids before they will
listen to dad sometimes. My
Uncle Jack was a fine man who died from
emphysema and told me
when I was a school kid to never take up smoking. I took his advice. My
mother's youngest brother was named for the "Georgia Peach"
Ty Cobb. My Uncle Ty also known as "Fat" Meunier was a kind man who
adored his wife and his children. His oldest son Dr. Jim Meunier was our
family's first college graduate. He was a professor at UGA and served as a
pharmacist in the Classic City. Jim lives just outside of
Athens and will get
bowed up you if you said anything bad about the Georgia Bulldogs. My cousins
include Diane Smith that is with the Flower's Baking folks in Villa Rica.
She also was the first and only trombone
player in our family.
Her baby sister Beth
Warner lives in
Cedartown with her husband David who is retired from decades of
teaching and school administration in Polk County. Beth is now helping a
support group for parents that have children that have passed away. She lost
her youngest daughter Andrea to a tragic accident almost four years ago and
has turned her positive energy to help others. Andrea was married to my
youngest adopted son McCoie and they produced two fine boys. I am proud to
be "Pop" to Jeremiah and Dylan. I do know they love Beth also known as Mimi
to them. That brings me to the youngest son of Uncle Ty, Thomas Hershel
Meunier. Tommy Meunier endured several football seasons as a starting guard
for the Red Devils being nicknamed "Horse" Meunier. Tommy's resolve is
perhaps the strongest of anyone I've ever known. He lived through brutal
winters in Korea serving in the
U.S. Army. He has been
married to the former Patsy Rogers since the late 60's and their union
produced two wonderful girls and a son that recently got married. Tommy and
Patsy have two grandsons serving in the military in
Afghanistan. I
promised them a steak at Crossroads if they can find
Osama bin Laden. My cousin Tommy worked for a quarter century for the
Atlanta Falcons. I
remember going into the locker room with Tommy when
Deion Sanders was the star of the team. Deion got up and hugged Tommy
and thanked him for taking care of his ticket situation for his family.
Every Falcon in that room came up and spoke to Tommy. Tommy is someone that
I want my girls to emulate for his heart and generosity of spirit. Tommy has
had a battle the past several months with
lymphoma and has
finished his treatments. He faced the challenge with courage and resolve.
That is why he has won this battle with this sometimes fatal illness. My
mother's oldest brother Henry
Meunier taught me how to fish. He gave me my first shot gun. He pretty much
was my father figure growing up. He was a truly a funny fellow and Lord did
he love picking at my Aunt Freddie. He once bought her a coffee percolator
for an anniversary present. Aunt Freddie didn't drink coffee.
Uncle Henry could fix
a power saw or a Briggs and Stratton lawn mower engine with his eyes shut.
His daughter Joyce Owen lives just down the street from us in Tallapoosa.
She and her husband of about 50 years Fred can be seen in a fire engine red
Ford truck tooling around town. Fred once told me that I had the ability to
tear up an anvil after doing an adjustment on the lawn mower that I had
nearly destroyed. I reflected on my mother's birthday this year about her
family and how much they loved Tallapoosa. My mother would tell me stories
of growing up in Tallapoosa. She taught me to not waste anything. She made
me clean my plate and you all can tell I listened to her by seeing my girth.
She taught me to respect authority especially law enforcement. She had a
deep love for her country, for Georgia and her hometown. She taught me to
respect everyone and not judge a person by skin color or where they went to
church or how much money a person had or didn't have. My mother was
disgusted by the fire hoses of
Bull Connor in Birmingham. My mother's regret of dropping out of high
school made her ride herd on me to go to college and to graduate. I remember
when mother was in her late 30's when she got her GED. I was in the fourth
grade and that memory of her is one of my favorites. Friends, I hope you are
lucky enough to have your mother still with you. Coach Paul "Bear" Bryant,
legendary coach of the
Crimson Tide once did a commercial for South Central Bell for long
distance service. He said at the end of the television spot urging people to
"call your mama, 'cause I sure wish I could call mine." Folks, Coach Bryant
was so right because I sure wish I could talk to my mother. When is the last
time you talked to yours? A week ago I was stopped in Wal Mart and asked if
I ever plan to return to radio broadcasting? I will
this Friday the 19th for one show filling in for Moby in the Morning
on South 107.1 out of Rome
and WNGC 106.1 in Athens. It gives me a chance to see if my alarm can still
go off at 3:45 a.m.
Rhubarb Jones is a Tallapoosa native and
a member of the faculty at
Kennesaw State University. His address is P.O. Box 1001, Tallapoosa,
GA 30176 or you can contact via email at
rhubarbjones@aol.com
or
rhubarb.jones@yahoo.com
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